Sarah Palin – what can I say that hasn’t already been said by intelligent people. God will not let me insult my intelligence nor my soul with even trying to comprehend this woman and those who choose to say she speaks like them or she is like them have tons of soul searching to dive into! Now with that said, I have to admit my disdain for this woman has affected my “white” friendships who I’m now demoting to acquaintances. I know this sounds crazy and one should know that politics and friendships should be kept separate, but let’s be honest with ourselves, politics do govern how we feel about the state of our society and what role we play in it. It’s OK if you’re a Republican and you can back what you say. But I have a serious problem with white intelligent women, I’m talking MBAs, Attorneys, etc. who can turn around and say “I love Sarah Palin”. Then as I grimace they go on to say, she’s a regular girl, she’s like me, talks like me, acts like me. And I stand dumbfounded I wonder when the hell have any of my white so-called friends ever said the words, heck ya, change is a comin, you betcha, the list goes on and on. And when has any of these white women attorneys, professionals decided to wink in meetings or taken the liberty to degrade anybody without substance (wait maybe they do a little of that
), but everything else give me a fucking break! No, Sarah Palin does not speak or act like you. You should be insulted if someone even insinuates such a thing. I seriously doubt if your white 17 year old daughter comes home pregnant it becomes a blessed event. Don’t play, you white people know if you’re teenage daughter comes home pregnant, you’ll be having a fit, hell you’ll do like Bree on Desperate Housewives and pretend the baby is yours by putting a pillow on top your stomach or you’ll send your precious little girl away to some “special” school. She has the baby and a nice young white infertile couple adopt the baby (can someone say Juno). You know that’s the drill so cut the bullshit. But of all sudden every white woman is tolerant of teenage pregnancy. You didn’t seem tolerant when Laquisha was having babies at 17. No, these are you exact words, “Laquisha is lazy, her parents didn’t teach her well and the best is “she just wants to be on welfare and we “white” people have to take care of her baby with our tax dollars”. Question – Palin fanatics – guess who’s paying for Bristol’s new baby, answer – “US” the tax payers. How hypocritical, now it’s OK but when Laquisha does it, do I hear “double standard” or as I like to say – just plain ole full of shit!!!
My issue with all of this despite the obvious is how in the world can I be friends with someone who shares this sentiment all of a sudden. As I stand baffled I’m like are you the same person I had dinner and drinks with. The person who I thought we shared the same family values. I’m like what the hell, all of sudden you’re heck ya, promoting teenage pregnancy, since when. I’ll tell you since when, since a black man is coming close to the presidency. All of sudden these things that were not OK now have the blessing to be OK. Shocked!!! Well honestly I shouldn’t be. I’ve never fully trusted any white person. Let’s face it, a race that has enslaved us, demoralized us and perpetuates institutional racism has never quite been our friend. However, there are 2 things that white people can not come out and just say. The first is the word Nigger which simply kills them because they created it and I’m sure they feel they should still have the right to say it. The other is it’s morally incorrect to openly say you wouldn’t vote for a black man, don’t get me wrong you have some hicks who have no problem saying this but the majority of whites know that saying this openly is not well received so what do they do; they use the Sarah Palin Effect and that this to make up some bull that she’s an average woman. I guess average is a hockey mom who moose hunts and have dead shells of bears and other animals in her office. Yep that’s the average woman (wink wink)! Again BULLSHIT!!! Some may comment that I shouldn’t let this affect my friendships. But you tell me how can I not. Here are some people that I hung out with who have no respect for people of my race who are like me. In a nutshell they’re saying I don’t think a black man can be a president and there’s no concrete substance as to why only that he is a black man. They’ll never say it but to champion for Palin speaks volumes. I would even tolerate support for McCain no matter how embalmed he looks. But a vote or consideration for Palin you gots to be kidding me!!!! This makes me wonder how do you really feel?? How you do feel about me? About my daughter and her future? About my capabilities? At this point trust me I wonder no more, the TRUE COLORS have surfaced. I look at these white people who’ve I had friendships with and say to myself you can say all you want but you’re too punk to say how you really feel and for that I can’t be your friend. How can I befriend someone who thinks less of me and my people, who is ignorant enough to put this country in jeopardy because of their racist attitudes, which they proclaim they don’t have, please we know better! This election is causing all of us to examine who we are and what we believe in. I honestly feel all of us should be truthful and when being confronted with the truth we should not sugar coat it in any way. The Palin effect has caused me to re-examine some of my so called friendships and I’m probably the only person of color saying this but thank you Sarah, without you I wouldn’t really know who is truly real or not. Your campaigning if that’s what you call it has helped me muffle through the camouflage of fake friendships. I have yet to tell any of my white acquaintances who fake that they agree with Palin that I will no longer have nothing to do with them. I’m sure the day will come when I have to face them and they have to face me and when that day arrives I’ll be sure to let them have it and open up the heavens with a sleuth of truths. In my opinion these women need to put the white sheet over their head, burn a cross and keep it moving!